Where are You Now? Three to Six Months After the Death of a Spouse
Posted on June 2, 2022 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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Grief is individual. Everyone experiences the sorrow over the loss of a loved one in their own way and at their own pace. That said, there is enough common ground for scientists, behaviorists and psychologists to describe steps or stages of grief. These scales for grief are useful. They can be helpful to see your […]
Continue ReadingTrouble Sleeping After A Loss
Posted on February 11, 2022 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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“The darkest hour is just before dawn,” or “Things will look better in the morning,” both are old sayings that could be interpreted in different ways. One theory holds those sayings refer to “night dreads”. Night dreads are when sleep is interrupted abruptly with anxious feelings of dread. You wake after just a few hours […]
Continue ReadingFood and Funerals
Posted on October 22, 2021 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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Why is food such a fundamental part of any funeral? Food provides comfort and strength. A gift of food shows that we care. It’s natural to connect food with the healing process of a funeral. When should you give food? What’s helpful without being overwhelming? How do you accept food graciously without having […]
Continue ReadingWhat helps when a person is sad?
Posted on June 4, 2021 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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Some things are so simple that it’s easy to doubt their ability to help. In times of trouble, it is often the little things that make all the difference. Chicken soup when you feel a cold coming on, a hug, and a warm chocolate chip cookie all make a person feel better. Even though they […]
Continue ReadingTop three priorities for those who are grieving
Posted on March 19, 2021 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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When a person is in the midst of grief, taking care of themselves can get lost in the mayhem. There really are so many things to do. Eating well, exercise, and even sleep just don’t seem that important. The reality is that grief takes a lot of energy. Self-care might just be the most important […]
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