Making the Funeral About the one who Died

Making the Funeral About the one who Died

Posted on February 5, 2021 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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A “personalized” funeral is not just for the rich and famous. When someone we love dies, we want to remember that person. We want to celebrate the life that was lived. A life story does not have to have a dramatic plot twist or culminate in fame and riches to be worthy of remembrance. So, […]

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Why don’t we celebrate life while the person is alive?

Why don’t we celebrate life while the person is alive?

Posted on January 22, 2021 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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Interesting question, isn’t it? The person asking the question had recently attended what he described as a “fabulous funeral.” Turns out the funeral was billed as a celebration of life. Our questioner, Mark, attended because the person who died was the mother of a co-worker he had worked with for more than 30 years. Mark […]

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Finding YOUR Joy

Finding YOUR Joy

Posted on December 26, 2020 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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Even months after the funeral it’s not uncommon to feel just not exactly right. We all lose our way from time to time. Things happen and we can’t find our JOY. It’s not really so much gone, as it is misplaced. Life feels dull and the days seem to drag.  No matter what the circumstances, if […]

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Christmas

Christmas

Posted on November 27, 2020 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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Not everyone anticipates the approaching Christmas holiday with enthusiasm. Let’s face it, Christmas comes around the same time every year and it’s just bound to hit everyone at a low point at least once in a lifetime. So, if this is not been your best year and you are not really looking forward to Christmas, […]

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Moving after a spouse dies?

Moving after a spouse dies?

Posted on October 30, 2020 by Reynolds-Jonkhoff | Leave a comment
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One of the realities of losing a spouse or a parent is the impact that event has on living arrangements. Are we living in the “right” place? Is the house too big? Is it too far away from family? Will my surviving parent be safe where they live? Should I move to be closer to […]

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